This
is about to be a novel. Just so y’all are prepared.
To
explain: The exchange program that I’m in Bologna with requires that we live with
Italian students in order to have an authentic Italian university experience.
This aspect of the program is one of the reasons it stood out to me amongst all
the other UChicago study abroad programs in the first place. UniBo doesn’t have
dorms or a housing system like American schools do, so all the students live in
apartments.
Had
I stayed in Chicago, I would have moved out of my beloved house (Breck
shout-out!) and into an apartment for my 3rd year. However, it’s not exactly the
same as finding an apartment would have been back in Hyde Park. At UChicago, I
would have gotten together with a group of friends and we would have looked for
an empty apartment all together. In Bologna, we instead had to find a group of
already existing roommates already all settled in an apartment. The whole
process was centered on whether or not a group of Italians wanted you to live
with them. Thus, with each apartment I saw, I became less focused on the location
and dishwashers and laundry and more on the roommates. My hotel roommate Jackie
categorized apartment hunting with job interviews: essentially you are trying
to impress your potential roommates like you would a potential employer.
The
process started last Tuesday, when we had a meeting about housing with BCSP.
Before coming to Bologna, I was a little worried that being with the BCSP would
be too much structure, but man was I glad I had them during the apartment
search. Our resident director peoples basically supplied us with a ton of
insider tips and experience that made the process a lot easier and faster than
it would have been had I done it alone. After the meeting, we pretty much
immediately started making phone calls. Calling strangers doesn’t make me very
nervous anymore (thank you, UChicago Telefund) but I didn’t take into account
how much more difficult it is to understand a different language over the
phone. After about 4 or 5 incredibly confusing calls I miraculously stumbled
into my first appointment, which was to occur the following afternoon with a
student named Vincenzo.
This is an example of an "annunci." I spent a lot of time pulling numbers off of these during my search. The word "Erasmus" is synonymous with a foreign or exchange student.
I
ended up really liking the first place, but I decided to wait and see a few
more before telling Vincenzo I was interested. The next two were okay, but I
still liked Vincenzo’s the best so I followed protocol and called him back.
During the tour/interview I had explained in rather poor Italian that I didn’t
know anyone in Bologna so I was looking for friends as well as roommates.
Desperate, right? Apparently he understood me though, because he invited me to
get drinks with him and his friends last Saturday. They were all super nice and
we had a great time.
You
might think now that this story ends with me living in Vincenzo’s apartment.
His apartment had two beds in a “doppia,” and as it turned out, he was
interested in filling both at once. Noelle and I considered living there
together, but in the end we decided that we didn’t want be tempted into
cheating on speaking only Italian. So, I didn’t get the first place. After last
weekend, I kicked it into high gear and started seeing 4, 5, sometimes 6 places
in a day. It was lots more walking that I’ve ever done, and I got myself some
pretty hardcore blisters in the process. There were definitely advantages to
the process though. I learned how to ride the bus, which apparently all these
rural Indiana University kids are afraid to do, so I felt pretty hip. Also,
it’s definitely true that you learn the geography of a city really fast when
you have to walk clear across it a few times per day.
Our
hotel reservation is up tomorrow (Saturday) so when I still didn’t have a place
on Thursday morning I was getting pretty stressed out. One of the toughest
aspects of the whole process was that it occupied my thoughts and the
conversations that I had with other students from BCSP constantly. For a few
days there, it felt like I couldn’t escape the stress of apartment hunting,
whether it was mine or someone else’s. I had an enormous streak of bad luck,
and in three days of near constant searching I only saw one place I liked,
which ended up being taken first by another student.
Finally,
on Thursday evening, when I was starting to get seriously worried that I would
be homeless in a foreign country in a matter of hours, I had an interview
(let’s call it like it is) that went really well. There were three girls living
in the apartment, and I met two of them. They were really nice and calm, and so
I told them on the spot that I was interested. Later that night, I had to work
on a group presentation with some other BCSP students (by the way, our classes
started this week! Somehow that ended up on a back burner) so I went the
grocery store with my friend Molly to get some salami (no, not bologna) and
cheese to snack on while we worked. At the store, I got a text that from my
future roommate, Monica, that said “noi farebbe piacere averti come
conquillina” which basically means “we’d love to have you as a roommate!” Then
Molly bought me a Kinder Bueno bar to celebrate.
So,
starting Monday, I’m living with three girls named Monica, Elisa, and Giorgia.
The apartment is awesome. It’s in an attic so it’s tiny, but it has a cool loft
space that serves as one of the bedrooms, and great views of the red roofs from
the windows. It’ll be about a 20-minute walk to most of my classes, and I’m
planning to buy a used bike. I’ll post pictures of the apartment sometime next
week!
A nice arial shot of my new hood.
P.S.
I apologize if the written English in this blog is of a rather low quality. It's really difficult to switch between languages, and I've noticed that sometimes I have actual trouble coming up with simple English words. I'm not making this up...the other Americans here have reported similar side effects of bilingualism!
P.P.S. The craziest thing happened this week. Noelle and I ran into (here in Bologna) another student from our UChicago Italian class named Antonio. We had no idea he was planning to be in Bologna this summer. Wednesday night we went out to a bar with BCSP peeps and there he was, sitting at the table next to us! Small world!

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